Is it appropriate to talk about porn with a young person?
Any health professional who supports or educates young people around relationships and sexuality may come across the need to talk about porn.

Research in Aotearoa tells us that most young people have seen porn, and many have felt uncomfortable about what they’ve seen. Young people, however, aren’t having the conversations they want or need with adults, which can be due to social taboos, shame, cultural or faith barriers, and fear of being judged.

Health professionals can play a key role in helping young people navigate porn-related issues, build critical thinking, and find support (if needed). By not talking about porn, young people are often left to navigate porn on their own.

All porn-related conversations require care and a culturally safe and shame-reduction approach – and special consideration should be given to young people who may be more vulnerable.

“It’s often viewed as if you don’t bring it up, then they won’t seek it out. It’s more like, if you don’t bring it up, then they won’t seek it out safely.”
Male, 16 years